There are some men out there who have become very successful. They have the best job, the best house, the best car, and the best credit score. So why not have the best for a wife? Yes, we are talking a trophy wife, that dazzling arm candy that looks good and makes you look good, too. Generally, a trophy wife is younger, beautiful, and charming. These days, the trend is to have a trophy wife that is also career-minded. The trophy wife is generally a man’s second wife (but not always) and is chosen as a form of status. Whatever the requirements, a man must be very careful when choosing a trophy wife. He needs to consider the good aspects versus the bad aspects. In other words, the pros and cons.
Pros and Cons of a Trophy Wife
The term trophy wife can be very sexists and degrading while at the same time some women consider it a compliment. But there is a trade off between having a trophy wife and having a (for lack of a better word) normal loving wife.
Pros of a Trophy Wife
First, the trophy wife is usually smoking hot. Secondly, she knows how to dress and look good which adds to your status as a guy who can score a hot babe. Her appearance reflects well on you and can open some doors such as the right club or social event. And a trophy wife can be a matter of convenience. If you are too busy running a business and no time for complicated relationships, a marriage of this type can be very convenient.
Cons of a Trophy Wife
There are some drawbacks, too. First, trophy wives suffer from a tainted image as gold-diggers and social climbers. There will always be someone talking behind your back about her. Second, the problem of outrageous spending. If you have set yourself up as a sugar daddy, be prepared for her to take you up on that as she buys anything and everything. Another problem with having a trophy wife, particularly one that is considerable younger, is whether she truly loves you or your money. And finally, a problem that may be more stereotyped than actual fact, the trophy wife may not be as interesting to talk to as she is to look at. In other words, she may not be the brightest bulb in the room.
What You Need In Order to Get a Trophy Wife
Trophy wives don’t just hang out at the local grocery store, waiting for you to pass by. If you want a trophy wife, there are some things you are going to need in order to attract them. You may not need every one of these things but a few will definitely help your odds.
- Money. Let me say it again. Money. And lots of it. Money is the number one factor is attracting trophy wives. If you don’t have the money, you can’t by all the other things to attract them and you certainly can’t buy them the things they want.
- An expensive car, usually a luxury sports car, is a good trophy wife attractor. Chicks dig cars. One of the first things they are going to check out is your car so it needs to be a good one. If you are driving around a little compact car because it has great gas mileage, the potential trophies are going to assume you don’t have the wealth and status.
- A nice house, particularly one with a pool and lots of expensive amenities such as big screen televisions, a bathtub Jacuzzi, marble fireplaces, and a big garage for that new car you are going to buy her.
- Jewelry, as in gold and diamonds, are a woman’s best friend. If you are able to present your trophy potential with one of these valuable gifts like you just plucked it from the tree outside, you will have won them over in an instant.
- Clothes shopping is important to most women. You need to be able to take them shopping or, at the very least, give them a credit card to go shopping with.
- Expensive trips and vacations to exclusive resorts can attract a woman. Some men even meet their trophy wives on such a trip. Not only do you need to have the financial means to afford these vacations but you need to know the right places to go. Remember, the more exclusive, the better.
- Vacation homes are likely to draw in a trophy wife or two. If you have a house in Tuscany or in Martha’s Vineyard, then your status will likely increase in a woman’s eyes. Some trophy wives get bored at home and like to have a change of scenery.
- High limit credit cards run a close second to being a woman’s best friend. True shopaholics don’t have time to worry about spending limits and how close they are to maxing out that credit card. I fall you have is a few cards with $500 limits, don’t expect to attract too many trophy candidates for a wife.
- Political or celebrity status can be just as good as money to many trophy wives. Men who have such status are usually in the spotlight and can wield power. In some cases, power can get you things that money cannot and a true trophy wife will realize this.
- High end social circles usually follow people who have the right house in the right neighborhood. Trophy wives don’t want to hang out with a loser crowd. They want to be around people who they can impress.
- Dress yourself well to attract a trophy wife. Even if you are comfortable in jeans and a simple t-shirt, you’d better try on a sports jacket, nice shoes, and maybe even a designer tie. Women notice clothes and if you don’t have the right clothes, it may be assumed you don’t have the means to afford them.
- Be seen in the right places. Women that would make good trophy wives are going to be in high profile places like ritzy clubs, fashion shows, or society charity auctions.
Besides physical things, you have to have the means to support a trophy wife. This usually falls under emotional support but can also mean financial.
- Men looking for a trophy wife are generally going to be older than the women they are checking out and thus have more experience dealing with life. This sort of experience can be comforting to a younger woman.
- You make the money to pay the bills. Even though many trophy wives these days have their own career, some prefer a man who can manage all of the bills (with some left over).
- Financial stability is a big support.A lot of trophy wives grew up in households that were less than well-to-do. They want a man who has his own money, has a good job, and is stable.
- For some trophy wives, being chosen by their wealthy partner is a big accomplishment. The fact that they married well is a boost to their image in the eyes of their friends and family.
- Men looking for a trophy wife are usually more apt to comfort and pamper her. If they are happy, then they make you happy. Some of these women started out in a really rotten first marriage. So a little pampering will be very appreciated.
- Don’t be controlling. Many young trophy wives have already been in relationships with a controlling partner and are now looking for something else. Show her a little trust.
- You should also trust her with running your household. Let her make decisions, otherwise she will only feel like a guest, not at home.
- Accepting of her past. A lot of trophy wives these days are educated and have a career. But some trophy wives (i.e., strippers) didn’t come from such a privileged background.
Where to Find a Trophy Wife
So now you know some of the things you need in order to attract a trophy wife. Next, you need to know where to find them.
- Expensive restaurants are a great place to find a trophy wife. Trendy places that are popular and have a high clientele are likely spots.
- Fitness centers are where trophy wives keep it all in shape. Plus, you get to see the goods. Are they into no-sweat yoga or do they really like to burn it on the treadmill?
- High profile social eventssuch as charity events, fundraisers, and community parties is a good spot to see a potential wife all dressed to the nines. Gives you a chance to imagine what they would look like on your arm.
- Clubs and bars have always been the obvious places but nothing seedy. We’re talking high class joints here.
- Strip clubs definitely have young pretty women working there and you can usually find more than a few who appreciate nice things. Just be prepared what some of your associates might say.
- Country clubs have always been known as a recreational hangout for trophy potentials. Try the tennis courts or the pool for the best choices.
- Expensive resorts are like country clubs. They are a big draw for beautiful women who are interested in luxury and the finer things. Just be careful that the woman you are hitting on isn’t already there with someone.
- Escort services hire young attractive women whose job is to look good with whatever man they are with so they already come with experience. Many of them are appreciative of financial stability and comfort.
- Dating agencies have been around for a long time and occasionally you can find someone there who will fit the bill as a trophy wife. Be prepared to shuffle through a few dogs first.
- Online dating websites or web communities have become more popular through the last few years as a way to find that special someone. These are a great way to find out more about a woman in case you are interested in more than just eye candy.
- Mail-order brides services, believe it or not, are still around. Every year wealthy men pay thousands of dollars to travel overseas and meet potential brides. It’s basically shop for your own trophy wife and if you have the bucks, you are bound to find what you want.
- Your friend’s ex-wife or girlfriend is a common way to hook up with a new trophy wife. S what if he has complained about her while they were together. If she is hot, go for it.
- Anywhere there is a marina with a yacht, you are going to eventually come across a woman that would make a great trophy wife. She will obviously already be interested in expensive things and luxury (why hand out at the yachts?) so all you need to do is reel her in.
- Private society parties at a friend’s house are good mixers because there will usually be many attractive young women hanging out. If you don’t see her on someone else’s arm, go up and start a conversation.
- At the office can sometimes be a hunting ground for a trophy wife, especially if it is a corporate office that attracts a lot of young professionals. Be careful, though, because this could lead to some awkward situations in the office breakroom.
What to Look for in a Trophy Wife
I should mention some things that you should look for in the ideal trophy wife candidate. Not all of the ladies need to have every trait but a few would be beneficial.
Is Your Trophy Girlfriend Trophy Wife Material?
First they start out as a trophy girlfriend. You can shop her around and let everyone get a good look at her. But is she truly worthy of the big M? Take a look at some of the questions below that you need to ask yourself when deciding.
- Introduce her around to see how she handles herself in public
- While dating, is she affectionate enough most of the time?
- Does she go on and on about herself and money?
- Does she appreciate gifts?
- How does she look when not all dressed up to a ‘T’?
- Does she act trustworthy?
- How jealous is she?
- Does she eye the younger guys like a barracuda in a school of fish?
- Will she agree to a prenuptial agreement?
- If you have children from a previous marriage, how does she treat them?