I hate to hear about your heartbreak. People have to want to change. People that don’t change, prefer being the way they are. That’s harsh to say, but true.

Don’t give up, though. One example does not make the race. “Single guys who date online” are not all like this one man you dated. In my experience, there are a lot of good guys out there who want nothing more than to find a nice woman and settle down.

You just wonder why she thinks that’s going to attract a man. You’re right, though; I guess you can’t fault her honesty.